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Posted: Mon Jul 03, 2006 5:29 am

hmm... i dunno how to answer yih feng ..

thx ur concern chuchu.....u r right too... actually it is quite complicated....

hmm, more thing happen and unhappy too..i hope it is over... have a serious quarrel wif friend here.... gain a lot of experience today....

everything will be fine bah.......................................................

Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 1929 Location: JB

可能双方都还不够成熟。
面对这些男女关系时，不懂得怎么应对，怎么要求。

不过，我相信。只要是以open heart来谅解对方，日后也许有缘能再相聚。凡事都不必做到绝情吧！

浅见而已。^_^

anyway, how can good frens break up?都还不是情侣，更没有承诺要在一起。

Joined: 06 Jul 2004 Posts: 329 Location: KL--Cheras

erm... sue, i think wat ze biao means tat is his good friend break up and both of the couple is his good friends, not tat a couple of good friend break up.....

Posted: Tue Jul 04, 2006 7:32 pm

对,他们两个都是我的好朋友, 谢谢楚楚,哈哈...

这次吵架,我看到了很多东西,至少学到了东西,有增加了一点知识....

时间会证明一切...

Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 1929 Location: JB

oohhhhh.... paiseh...

language problem...

i guess u have to let them two think about it by themselves.
what u can do is give them 'energy'!!!

Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 11:05 am

i support their decision actually because it is a chance for both of them to grow up and breath for new air...

but seem is not tat simple.. or else i wouldn't have a quarrel wif a friend here...

haha.. now a... not only they can learn, i also can learn something from this evidence...

Joined: 08 Dec 2003 Posts: 21

agree then i oso din read all the things there... hehe

sue got things to tell us is it? or u oso wanna tell us that abt urself "想从感情上要一些什么?分享分享，没有压力。" share share la wanna listen from u hehe

Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 6:43 pm

其实时常会觉得恋爱真的很累。。。
尤其是当我变得越来越贪心><
以前一点点就能让我很开心
到后来就会想要更多更多更多。。
把两个人搞得都很累。。。哎。。。
我多希望他的世界能绕着我旋转。。
可是如果真这样我也会很累吧？呵呵。。。
我想安全感很重要。。一种让人放心安心的感觉
可是这种感觉好像离我越来越远。。。
这种感觉还蛮可怕的因为自己能知道。。
感情应该要很认真还是不要太认真？

Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 3:20 am

咦,玮庭阿姨怎么突然有感而发来这里post? forum冷冻了这么久,今天终于重见天日。。。

我向来对感情的事没什么研究,更不是专家,但是看这里冷冷清清凄凄惨惨戚戚的,就由我来陪吧 Very Happy

老实说,我觉得太贪心就是阿姨你的不对了。凡事都要有个平衡点。若一方付出的比另一方多,日积夜累,很肯定的没法持久。刘墉说过感情久了,虽然没有一开始的那种百花盛开的感觉,但有如一品好茶,淡而有味。若无法接受,也无需勉强。反正你还年轻,姿智双全,又何惧哉!

感情当然要认真。但是认真和完美是两回事。我觉得很多人很容易把感情想的太完美,或许是戏看多了。把一件事想的太完美,必然让自己失望,毕竟这世上,更本就没有可能发生完美的事。

希望可爱的玮庭阿姨,早点找回可爱的笑容,侄儿随远在他乡,为阿姨献上祝福!

Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 1:33 am

侄儿的post有放松的作用
“冷冷清清凄凄惨惨戚戚” 看到这个有点好笑但阿姨也这么觉得。。
“姿智双全” 看到这个。。哈哈。。。侄儿你人真的太好了Y_Y 呵呵。。。

其实你说得也对也许是戏看太多了不知不觉要求也多了以为自己是女主角。。哈哈。。。要放轻松不能每样都完美。。

嗯那么阿姨如果没有继续品茶的话。。就要保持姿智双全了。。不知茶能品到何时所以看来姿智双全还是比较重要呵呵。。。

放心啦你的玮庭阿姨还会一样可爱的哈哈。。^^

Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 3:41 am

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要放轻松不能每样都完美。。

如果完全没有任何期望,无论发生什么,都一定是完美的。问题只在一点期望都没,人生可悲。。。

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所以看来姿智双全还是比较重要呵呵。。。

姿智双全永远属于自己的。阿姨有没有恋爱,都要努力争取!

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放心啦你的玮庭阿姨还会一样可爱的哈哈。。^^

这样就好

你近来好吗?工作真么样?

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 1:33 am

对咯当一件事情快发生时总会想象它是什么样子想象=美好>< 阿姨太相信美好的事物了吧。。哎。。

现在感性和理性打仗着。。。。。。。

最近还。。蛮烦的哈哈。。除了感情上的事工作也是。。想换工

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 10:46 pm

噫,感情的事到头来,还需自己决定。。。

工作怎么烦呢?想换什么工?

Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 8:48 am

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最近还。。蛮烦的哈哈。。除了感情上的事工作也是。。想换工

Joined: 06 Jul 2004 Posts: 329 Location: KL--Cheras

i have to admit i ord disappear for quite a long time.... almost dunno how and where r everyone right now le..... even ting mei de shi, i only knew from yunjie's blog and just now read from these posts... (so, yunjie, dun worry, i'm worse than you =< )

anyway... hope everything is better for ting mei, have u found a job by now? forgot when is the last time we have chat in msn, wish you can get a better job with a better salary and oso supervisors and colleagues.

anyway.... will try to update my blog these few weeks....
everyone, please take care where yourself right now and all the best ya Wink

cheers ^^